Friday, June 24, 2011

Days of our lives - Will and Sonny!!

days is getting into the gay of things with a new gay storyline . and with Freddie Smith and Chandler  Massey i am confident they will be the cutest couple yet. check out the first  meeting for both boys

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Lonesome Bridge

I saw this a few years ago , and it is terribly acted lol but i think if it had better production value and better acting it would be better , Check it out.

Letter for Tony #2

So i got an e-mail from my tsc account from someone named kyle and here's what he wrote to me

Dear Tony ,

I have a girlfriend who i liked alot, we have had sex a couple of times but it wasnt really any good, i didn't enjoy it.  but here is the twist i am attracted to her Male cousin , he is great , i think that im more gay then bi-sexual as i considered myself before.It seems more and more girls just isnt my thing. sometimes i have dreams about "Jason" and i have serious hard on. Just last week , Jason was over and i was with my girlfriend we were snuggled up on the couch watching a movie jason and i kept looking at each other , there is clearly a attraction/connection and he admitted he likes me when my girl wasnt around. and one little tidbit we kissed but thats it , i dont want to hurt my girlfriend but i dont want to be with her either i want Jason . what should i do

Kyle.
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Hey Kyle. thanks for writting , okay here is the thing , if girls just dont do it for you and jason does you might be gay , or you might still be bi , but really into Jason , but i think your the formar rathen then the latter , lets go step by step with your little letter to me shall we . okay

1) you have a girlfriend  who you like , okay i think you need to evaluate that right there , you like her but you dont really really like her or love her , maybe she would have been a better friend then a girlfriend . you should have been alarmed when the sex with her wasnt great ,  now we throw jason in the mix

2) the sexy male cousin , jason comes into the picture and you began to develop something for him something far more greater then what you feel for your girlfriend. again alarms .. Jason is the one you dream about jason is the one you rather be with . and Clearly Jason is into you because he looks at you and you look at him

3) he admits he likes you and you and Jason kiss , so much for not wanting to hurt your girlfriend , you kissed her cousin . i really dont like to tell people what to do , but i think you should end things with your girlfriend , your just not that into her , you like jason go for it , but when she finds out all hell might break loose , but if thats who you want to be with , you have to do what you have to do . this situation will get messy because it is family . Good luck K and write me telling what happened with your situation

if you got a Story or a letter you want me to answer . e-mail it to beinggayokay@yahoo.com

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Interracial relationships.



I am and always have been a fan of Greek , Especially with the characters of Calvin and heath , i was bummed when the writers decided to tear them apart but its nice they are back together again . , what i want to know is , what is the big deal , with interracial relationships , i think its nice actually two people of two backgrounds put into one and exploring the endless possibilities of Love . it's great and you get to learn new and different things . not all the time but some times.

Being Gay has a taboo affect and being gay and in a interracial relationship is well double the Taboo, and lets face it Straight interracial couples have such prejudices fall on them as well .

I am black if you didn't know and let me tell you , i like all different kinds of men , i don't discriminate i don't see skin color but judge a guy on his personality as it should be .and i am attracted to a great personality , looks is great but it isn't everything, i would never be with a shallow conceited  good looking man it would never work .

and i must add that i am 22 years old i turn 23 in April so I'm in a generation that is not so much concerned with Ethnicity , and  more so concerned about "who am i going to hook up with" or "fall in love with" regardless of that stupid barrier that is less and less important the color of one skin. so you know where i stand with interracial relationship ( i love white guys lol) where do you stand on the subject

Skins | Ep. 1 | 'Tony' what did u think?

So i have no idea what the original skins looked like or how it was acted out , but i watched the new Skins on mtv last night and i thought it was okay , nothing to rave about the acting was okay the show can either go in two directions now, up or down , so did you watch it and what did you thing and if you havent seen it , watch below

Skins | Ep. 1 | 'Tony': "Tony's a smart kid. So smart he believes that he can get his best friend Stanley laid, and make a profit in the bargain -- with a drug deal. Inevitably that deal goes wrong. And a stolen car, carrying the unpaid drugs, goes into the lake."



sneak peek of episode 2!


Letter for Tony #1

Well , i dont know what i want to achieve with this blog , but i know that i want people to follow and help with making this blog better , i got an email from some one named John, he wrote me in regards of one of my stories i wrote on nifty but his e-mail was about him more so the story so i decided to post it read below

i'm gay i struggled with it and lived in the shadow of my live , in many ways i still do , my brother and sister do not know , and i am envious sometimes of their relationships. i wont admit it and only my mom knows , she hasn't acted any differently towards me , she still loves me thats great. but sometime i wish i could find happiness love and have people be okay with it . but one can only dream.  i am in college and i notice a lot of guys that i am into but i dont think they are into me . sometimes though i get the stare back , the stareback is when i see someone who i am attracted to and they stare back at me , its like we are sexing with our eyes but it doesnt go further then that . how can i find friends and even a boyfriend that is gay"

"John*"

i'm no expert and i am glad you wrote me , and allowed me to use this on my new site , but i also have struggled with who i am , trying to find the right balance between my inner self and what the world deems as normal . it will eventually clash john, one day you will feel like your suffocating because your pretending to be something or someone your not while the person you are and want to portray is stuck well in the darkness. what i mean is "who you are is being confined within you" lets face it the reason for the confinement is because it  would be more comfortable for everyone else.. But what you should be asking yourself is what do "I" want , what is right for "ME"

and the whole thing with your siblings i assume they are in hetero relationships and i understand how you can get envious of that . seeing how free they can be with each other , but it feels like you dont have that option, well you do have that option  but sometimes it isnt safe to explore who you are and you feel trapped. i know from personal experiences that people wont always be okay with you being who you are . so i should ask this question , do you feel like it is something that it's worth doing, and if you dont do it will you regret it . I can't tell you what to do , in fact i wont tell you what to do all i am doing is trying to give some advise on the matter or rather help you along the way of life .

The staring concept is to let you know that the other guy is into you john, lets face it , the other guy is just as much scared as you are , trust me a straight guy wouldn't be staring at you., if you do want to talk to the starer go over ease into a conversation , ask about the weather or the time , ask what his major is,  you  know small talk then move into more gradual conversation (what you or he wants to do after college) you never know until you try right . i know it isn't easy i am not saying it is , trust me . but you never know

I will end this note with this , if you want to live your true life you have to throw caution to the wind and allow yourself to be happy, It's okay john. if you want to meet more friends see if your school have lgbt groups or gay straight alliance groups , you can meet really great people and even a possible boyfriend their , i hope it all works out for you because you deserve to be happy we all do.