Letter for Tony #2

So i got an e-mail from my tsc account from someone named kyle and here's what he wrote to me

Dear Tony ,

I have a girlfriend who i liked alot, we have had sex a couple of times but it wasnt really any good, i didn't enjoy it.  but here is the twist i am attracted to her Male cousin , he is great , i think that im more gay then bi-sexual as i considered myself before.It seems more and more girls just isnt my thing. sometimes i have dreams about "Jason" and i have serious hard on. Just last week , Jason was over and i was with my girlfriend we were snuggled up on the couch watching a movie jason and i kept looking at each other , there is clearly a attraction/connection and he admitted he likes me when my girl wasnt around. and one little tidbit we kissed but thats it , i dont want to hurt my girlfriend but i dont want to be with her either i want Jason . what should i do

Kyle.
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Hey Kyle. thanks for writting , okay here is the thing , if girls just dont do it for you and jason does you might be gay , or you might still be bi , but really into Jason , but i think your the formar rathen then the latter , lets go step by step with your little letter to me shall we . okay

1) you have a girlfriend  who you like , okay i think you need to evaluate that right there , you like her but you dont really really like her or love her , maybe she would have been a better friend then a girlfriend . you should have been alarmed when the sex with her wasnt great ,  now we throw jason in the mix

2) the sexy male cousin , jason comes into the picture and you began to develop something for him something far more greater then what you feel for your girlfriend. again alarms .. Jason is the one you dream about jason is the one you rather be with . and Clearly Jason is into you because he looks at you and you look at him

3) he admits he likes you and you and Jason kiss , so much for not wanting to hurt your girlfriend , you kissed her cousin . i really dont like to tell people what to do , but i think you should end things with your girlfriend , your just not that into her , you like jason go for it , but when she finds out all hell might break loose , but if thats who you want to be with , you have to do what you have to do . this situation will get messy because it is family . Good luck K and write me telling what happened with your situation

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